Lady Bird: The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the movie, Lady Bird – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
5 2018 Oscar Nominated Movies Directed By Women
A list of 5 movies nominated for the 2017 Oscars (the blog title says 2018, but they are really 2017 nominated) that I have seen and are also directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Lady-gasm Advice for Becca, The Bachelorette
I saw a couple episodes of Rebecca Kufrin on the Bachelorette, and I have thoughts and hopes for her…mostly about using her situation to her advantage. Here’s some quick ideas, Becca.
A Bad-ass Letter from a Bad-ass Woman About Her Orgasms and My Post
A letter from a reader related to a post I wrote about bravado from women in group discussions about orgasm. It’s a beautiful letter, and I love this lady.
Random Hite Report #27
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of the groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey by Shere Hite about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality -The Hite Report. Every page is fab, and I do this with the hopes of getting people to read the whole book.
Put Your Dicks Away, Like, For Real.
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Inside Amy Schumer Season 3 Episode 10, specifically Bridget Everett’s song, “Put Your Dick Away!”
Me Telling Cosmo Readers to Rub on Stacks of Laundry in Their Panties
I was asked to write some masturbation ideas for a Cosmo list, and that I did.
Sex And The City S1 E1-2: A Retro SSL Review
Transcriptions of the notes I made for Sex and the City many years ago about depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit. Season 1 Ep 1-2
Inside Amy Schumer S3 Ep5 - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Inside Amy Schumer Season 3 Episode 4 - 5 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Those Ladies Putting On Bravado About Their Orgasms - A Free Flow Writing
A stream on consciousness quick post about lady-gasms where I, among other things, encourage women to maybe ignore the lady in the friend group discussion that is telling everyone that she has always had no problem coming from a good bang.
Cake (2005) - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the movie, Cake – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
The Holy Mountain SSL Review - A Retro Post
A Repost form 2016. Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the movie, The Holy Mountain– uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Inside Amy Schumer S3 Ep10 - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Jane the Virgin Season 3 Episode 10 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Magic Mike XXL - A Retro Post
A re=post from 2015. Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the movie, Magic Mike XXL – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
5 Movies With Ties To Asia #DirectedByWomen
A list of 5 movies I have seen related to Asia and also directed by women. This is part of an ongoing series to highlight women’s voices in media creation.
Random Hite Report #26
Here I hand-copy 1 random page out of the groundbreaking, incredibly important 1976 survey by Shere Hite about female orgasm, masturbation, and sexuality -The Hite Report. Every page is fab, and I do this with the hopes of getting people to read the whole book.
Lady-gasms Are Barely A Thing In Sex, And We All Deal With It In Our Own Way
A love letter to all the ladies (that’s all of us really) out there dealing with how to merge our orgasmic realities with our orgasmic expectations, giving particular focus to what the idea of an orgasm not being important to a woman means in this crazy sexual culture of ours.
Alison Stevenson Giving Up BJ's for Orgasm Equality - A Retro SSL Post
A re-post form 2016, highlighting Alison Stevensonwho wrote some great stuff related to the orgasm gap.
Empire S3 Ep3 - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in Empire Season 3 Episode 3 – uses the signature SSL Review 5 vulva rating system.
Cosmo October 2018 - The SSL Review
Review of depictions and discussions of female orgasm, female masturbation, cunnilingus, and/or the clit in the October 2018 Cosmopolitan Magazine